About the Relationships Project
How are we to heal divided communities, to respect difference, trade fairly, care for the displaced, respond to crises, or share the natural world? How are we to live together?
More than ever, the big questions that we face are all about relationships. Their substance and quality will determine the direction and quality of our lives.
Wider society, meanwhile, has been moving in the wrong direction: we network and transact as never before but being well connected is not the same as connecting well. Meaningful time together has been displaced by fast and shallow connection.
We value competition, individualism, speed and scale rather than effective relationships, collaboration and the common good. Our organisations have become more remote and less human as these attitudes are wired into every aspect of our lives.
We can do better. Covid and lockdown showed us all that our health and happiness, as individuals and as communities, is built from the aggregation of our personal relationships. We could build a better society, an equitable economy, effective government, flourishing businesses, successful services, happy, healthy, thriving communities if we put relationships first.
Strong relationships are not a frilly accessory in a happy neighborhood, a thriving school, an effective health service, a flourishing business, or a strong and cohesive society. They are the making of it all.
Working towards a world of good relationships, wherever we are and whatever we do, is simple common sense. We want to make it common practice.
What we’re doing
We believe in the power of relationships, so relationships are at the heart of how we work. We listen, learn and collaborate with others who share our belief in the importance of relationships. We then translate this learning into a shared vision and practical resources, helping everyone, everywhere to nurture good relationships.
CONNECT
Creating spaces for connection and shared learning about relationships
UNDERSTAND
Bottling all that we learn about building a world of good relationships
EMBED
Translating the learning into practical tools for putting relationships first
Set up in 2025, the Relational Practice Academy is a space for existing, emerging and next generation leaders to set course for a different future, to nurture the skills, design the policies and create the conditions that will bring about a world of good relationships.
The core team
We’re a small core team supported by a wonderful network of associates and collaborators.
David Robinson
I not only believe it’s possible to build a better world by building better relationships, I see no other way. My background is in community development, helping to turn ideas into action and action into learning. I now work mostly with the Relationships Project.
Talk to me if:
You’re interested in practice learning and evidence and on sharing the lessons and the stories with policy makers as well as practitioners. Practitioner communities? An interdisciplinary learning network? Stats and stories that build the case? New ideas or good old community work with love and a tea pot? I’d love to hear from you.
Immy Robinson
Immy (no relation to David!) works full time at The Relationships Project. Her background is in research and service design in the voluntary sector. Outside of work she’s a keen amateur jockey and can often be found hurtling around muddy fields on horseback.
Talk to me if:
Interested in co-hosting an event? Creating a toolkit? Supporting a community of practice? I’d love to help! Wondering how to navigate our work? Wanting to share something with our network? Or just interested in learning more about what we do? I’m always up for a chat!
Read Immy’s posts on the blog.
Rosa Friend
Rosa works at The Relationships Project two days a week. She’s spent the last ten years designing and growing programmes that enable good relationships and strengthen community ties. Much of that work was with The Cares Family: piloting programmes that supported community leaders and councils to put relationships first, and connecting older and younger neighbours in Liverpool, Manchester and London. On days she’s not with the Relationships Project, Rosa writes fiction.
Talk to me if:
Do you want to connect with others who are putting relationships first? Do you have a challenge you’re working through, or hard-won best practice to share? Do you want to know more about the Relationship Project’s tools and resources and their practical application? I’d love to chat with you.
Neil Denton
Neil believes there is an energy within disagreement and conflict that can be a powerful force for positive change. He helps communities in conflict to find ways to solve real life problems and strengthen human relationships. He is a leader in community mediation and conflict transformation, an Independent Community Mediator, and a Professor in Practice with the After Disasters Network at Durham University. He is co-author of The Sense of Connection and the Bridge Builder’s Handbook.
Talk to me if:
Are you interested in building bridges across divides, in conflict transformation, or in reframing resilience as relational? Looking for someone to talk about the big, complex challenges of our time and how relationships offer a way forward? Or in exploring what academia can offer to the field of relationship-centred practice? I’d love to chat!
Read Neil’s posts on the blog.
Relationships Associates
We work in close partnership with a number of inspiring and talented individuals and organisations. There are too many people from whom we gain valuable support to mention here. Those we are working most closely with at present include:
Rich Bell
Rich is a social researcher, policy advisor and campaigner. Originally from Scotland, he now lives in London with his young family. Rich began working with the Relationships Project in 2024, supporting us in exploring the how, what and why of the Relationships Academy.
Katherine Perrin
Katherine is a trainer, social impact consultant and LEGO® SeriousPlay® facilitator who lives in Brighton. Katherine began working with us in 2024 to take more relational ways of working into the landscape of charitable trusts and foundations.
Katie Slee
Katie is a multidisciplinary designer based in London and hailing from the north-east. She’s been working with the Relationships Project since 2020, applying her considerable design skills to projects such as the Relationships Heatmap, The Moment We Noticed, and the Relationships Case Maker.
Mairi Lowe
Mairi is the Communications Manager at the School of System Change, a marketing ‘generalist specialist’ freelancer, and systems practitioner from Edinburgh. Mairi began working with us in 2023 to build the Relationships Resource Repository and now supports the team with website and communications tasks.
Collaborators
We’re hugely grateful to our network of collaborators who have fed in to our thinking at various points in time, and who continue to do so.
Get involved
Looking for support to make your place more relationship-centred? Or interested in collaborating with us in some way? We’d love to hear from you! Drop us a line at hello@relationshipsproject.com
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We’re grateful to our funders and partners for their continued support. If you’re interested in supporting the Relationships Project, we’d love to hear from you.
